I am not a big believer in birthday parties. Therefore, our kids have never had a true party. We celebrate with a day of "special" things for our kids--we decorate their bedroom doors with balloons/streamers, they choose the food, we gush over them, we do something extra fun, a few presents, a cake and family time. This time, I ordered a cake and cupcakes for Mya's friends at school and sent a bag of party toys for each of her friends. She felt like she had two parties and I didn't have anywhere near the stress. We also had our besties over for a party on Saturday. It was low key and lots of fun. asa made a card. mya opened it, saw his picture and said, "oh asa, i love you so much!" it was adorable. cupcakes and party bags for school friends.