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35 days apart; 8 days together; 75 days apart




Wow. I just did the math and although it could be quite worse, the number of days we've been separated as a family is just over 100. Sad. That is basically one third of a year! One third of a year that Chris has not seen his baby. He's missed out on many doctor appointments, many firsts, seeing her little personality develop and of course, the best part---the glorious, everyday experiences that come with having a little darling. Although I have cherished and will miss having every moment of Claire's undivided attention toward me, I am so happy to say that our separation is ending. Hallelujah! Chris is nearly home and we are thrilled. He wasn't sure if he'd make it home tonight or tomorrow, but I've been preparing Claire. We made a "welcome home" sign together complete with balloons, shopped for some little activities that we can do as a family, cleaned a bit (she loves to vacuum and wipe things), and talked excessively about "daddy coming home." I ask her every night while we are laying in bed where Daddy is going to sleep. She wasn't quite sure at first, but now she excitedly points to the spot on the other side of her. I can't wait to reconnect. Chris has expressed some worry that Claire will make strange with him. I am confident that she will be fine. Fortunately, we've been able to talk via video each weekend and week day that we've happened to be home, so I am hoping that will help eliminate any anxiety she may have. A huge thank you to all of our family and friends who have given Claire and I support & encouragement, sent packages to Chris, and most importantly, prayed for us. I am certain that our "counting" is coming to an end because God has listened and answered our prayers. Thank you for everything! We feel truly blessed.

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Anonymous said…
I'm so excited for you both. Too bad you can't take some time off to relax together. You are a great mom, Kara. And you took numerous problems in stride while he was away. GOOD work! Enjoy this time together, you both deserve it!

Love ya, Jessica
Anonymous said…
Those pictures are adorable..I dont think they were posted the first time I looked! Love em

Love ya,Jessica
Erin&Joshua said…
home tonight or tommorrow really??? Oh that is soo exciting. WELCOME HOME CHRIS!!!
Anonymous said…
So, can I believe he is home now?? You guys are finally through this mess?? I am so glad for you. I will give you time to reconnect before I expect a call. I am 3 hours behind you now. Hope to hear from you by sunday. Remember my # has changed. So glad you are finally home. So glad you guys are back together as a family again. love you guys
cooky9819 said…
I'm glad that Chris is coming home. I have been praying for a safe and swift return and my prayers have been answered. My love to you and the beautiful babies. Love Aunt Lorraine from Florida

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