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2010 & a promise to ME

So I've been wavering back and forth about how much information I am going to share with ye old blogworld. I've expressed my thoughts and received much encouragement (;) Alison), so I guess it was the push I needed. 2009 was a mixed year. it marked the most wonderful blessing on the birth of our daughter, Mya, but it has been tough. raising a child completely different in personality and demeanor from our first has been a huge challenge. we've finally gotten her figured out, but now we're facing different challenges--sleeping in her own crib. in 2009 we said goodbye to a truly awesome lady--my grandma dorothy. that was tough and even tougher this first christmas without her presence at our table. chris was gone for 4 months in 2009 and traveled frequently more recently. single parenthood is tough. anyway, through all that, i've managed to fall into the never ending hole of self-neglect. therefore, i am making the ever popular new year's resolution to use 2010 to attend to ME. i am going to lose weight--4 months for that goal or i will demote myself to personal attendent (and that's a promise to YOU Jessica!!), join a mommy book club to rediscover my love of reading, healthy eating, exercise, and focus on my friendships. I also want to step up my role as a mommy and wife. i have to sort out the details/steps of those endeavors. So, each week, i will update my progress--giving the nitty gritty details on my healthy eating, books i am loving/hating, and my re-dedication  to exercise (i was actually once a pretty athletic person; i am certain that same person is still here somewhere). tomorrow is day 1 on this 365 day challenge to ME.

Comments

Erin said…
what a great set of goals Kara and I love that you called them goals and not resolutions! I can't wait to hear about your progress and I am quite certain you will give them all your best. :)
Anonymous said…
Yeah..I am starting a new me tomorrow as well..we love you just the way you are but you will be quite sexy!

Good luck..wish you were here to motivate me through this!

love ya,
Jessica
Alison said…
What a great way to start the new year. I am going to join you in your endeavor to start the year off to a healthy start. I, too am going to strive to eat better and shed those extra pounds over the next few months.

P.S. Your new fonts look great ;-)
Hunter said…
ooohhh....really like your new font! Your blog has come so far and I really love the colors!
Anonymous said…
Hi -- So sorry that we were in opposite places while you were home and that we didnt' get to see eachother. That sucks!! Looks like you had a nice trip and that the girls had fun. Happy New Year to you!!

P.S. If you have a Wii Fit - try the Biggest Loser - I got that for Christmas and did that last night. I'm so stiff today I could die. It has a program to help with healthy eating and exercise so it's quite nice.....I need to get rid of all my Christmas goodies. Take care and enjoy your "me" time!!
Hugs, Nicole
Kara said…
Hey Nicole,
That does suck that we couldn't arrange a date. The snow definitely put a damper on our trip. Hope you had a good trip to Bis and DL. I bet Christmas was fun with your little ones. My Mom always says how much she loves Abby :) Thanks for the tip about Biggest Loser. We got Chris a Wii for Xmas and I told him he couldn't take it to Korea :) So nice. We may have to get the Wii Fit next.
You shouldn't be working out anyway...you look great!!!
Love ya,
K
Anonymous said…
Haha what is with all this motivation family!!?!! I have just recently hung up the running shoes and I already feel lazy. So I might have to join you all in this little "get fit" endeavor. Not really gonna enjoy being stiff and getting back in shape, but I guess the fact you all will be too makes me feel a little bit better.
Lauren

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